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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 27.06.2025 00:50

How does one succeed in life?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Procrastinates a lot.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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What I need from you?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What makes you different?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Ask yourself:

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Is it okay if I sleep with my brother without my husband knowing?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Making more friends is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.